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This was my second visit to Egbe since moving to Jos. I was so impressed with my team and how great they are doing. We were very busy of course meeting with various community leaders, interviewing new children for our programs and also preparing for Christmas. Check out some of the photos of my trip!

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Baba and his wife our chief encourager! He comes to the CARE center a few times a month and prays with my staff and encourages them,

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Writing to their penpals in the states.

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Last AWANA of the year.

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Last AWANA of the year. 

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Home Visit to a new intake.

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New Intake Visit

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CARE staff

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Christmas Cards for the sponsors.

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December Birthdays

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Last CARE Africa Child Celebration of the month. They all received a package of clothes, jollof rice, drinks, and candy.

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Secretary Cecilia……accounting, accounting, accounting, accounting!

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My babies

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Clothing Donation

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Clothing packages for the kids.

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Caregiver check ups.

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Donation from the states for the caregivers. 

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Someone gave the money they would have given for teacher appreciation gifts to us for food for our caregivers and the kids. They will be putting this picture in each card for the teacher letting them know what their gift went towards.

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Gifts from sponsors

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Caregiver presentation of the CARE Africa fabric for all events.

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Dinner under the moon with Chief Doyin and his wife. Chief continues to support us with wise counsel as he is known by the Ilegbe of Egbe as the Egbe Encyclopedia. 

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My daugher, Titi.

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Our visitors leaving their mark on our center.

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Meeting with the King to discuss the future of CARE Africa and their recommendations.

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Tofunmi (Secretary Cecilia’s baby)….our mascot

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Mommy and Me! Our Caregiver Manager

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Quick stop to the Fulani village to say hello. Do you recognize this women. She is on the Miles in Missions brochure.

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My amazing and fearless driver. I don’t know what I would do without him.

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Packed and loaded for the journey back to Jos. Notice some Nigerians in the back……story in the upcoming week.

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Nothing Good Comes Easy

Orphan Sunday (1)

Thank you so much to everyone who donated and or helped us create awareness for our Bus Project on Orphan Sunday, last Sunday. We are excited to announce we have raised a total of $2,855 towards our goal of $10,000. We have faith that God will provide the funds for this bus by the end of the year. Please continue to tell everyone you know about our need. Direct them to our website at www.iCareAfrica.org or are Facebook page at www.facebook.com/CAREafrica to learn more about our ministry. If they are interested in making a donation that can go to http://bit.ly/CAREBUS.

bebeeteamI recently was blessed to get to hear a friend tell about her experience when she came to Nigeria and worked in our ministry. She made a statement that really stuck with me. She told a story of the first time she visited Nigeria and was on the bus to Egbe. She asked a national on the bus, “Wouldn’t you just prefer us to send all the money that this trip cost instead of actually coming?” The national replied “No! Your presence is worth more than your money.”

Spending money to come to Nigeria versus sending the money to Nigeria has long been a struggle for many who desire to come visit us.  The average cost per person for airfare, accommodations and meals is $2,000.  A five (5) person mission trip would cost about $10,000.  That could buy a bus for our ministry right now! But you heard it from the mouth of a native Nigerian. “Your presence is worth more than your money!”

17309453_10155029234743808_2000218112937027946_nI have witnessed the effects your visit has on the nationals when short term mission trips are done right.   I notice the smiles my staff, kids and caregivers carry on their faces, the change of attitude, and I see their renewed spirit.  For people to leave their loved ones, their home and country to come meet us and encourage us is invaluable.  We all are impacted. We all see Jesus through a different cultural lens.  The nationals see openness, vulnerability, humility, sacrifice, words of affirmation and so many other things that are not normal for Nigerian culture. The love they receive from you fills them so much that they are spilling over. Christ’s love is being spread to others for weeks after your team leaves.

Last Import - 405 of 581I am not saying that we don’t need money. We have ongoing finances that must be met. What I am saying is that your presence is as precious as your money. So yes send your money….but if God is calling you to come and show Christ’s love to us – do not hesitate – your presence will never be forgotten and your visit will mean the world to us.

P.S. I wrote this in my journal on Nov 11th. On the 13th we found out that Nigeria is changing the regulations on Tourist Visas. They are going to start requiring all visitors go to D.C. to be fingerprinted prior to approval of a Nigerian tourist Visa. This would deter most teams from coming to serve with us so we need your prayers! Please pray that this new regulation does not last or they come up with a more efficient way for visitors to have their fingerprints captured.

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Orphan Sunday (1)Good Morning from Nigeria! Today is the day, Orphan Sunday. Would you help us spread the word? Forward this blog to everyone you know. If you are on Facebook or Instagram, would you please consider changing your profile picture to the following photo and posting the verbiage below. Thanks so much!!

“HELP US raise $10,000 for a bus for C.A.R.E. Africa. Visit http://bit.ly/CAREBUS to donate or visit www.facebook.com/CAREAfrica for more information on this amazing orphan ministry in Egbe, Nigeria.”

The North

Posted: September 12, 2017 by Lenny in Lenny Miles, Miles In Missions, Nigeria, Prayer, SIM

DSC_0054As we drove, headed north away from the Plateau, I remember being surprised at the beauty of it all. The landscape was much different than I imagined. Mountains out to the far distance and between them were huge expanses of green. In my mind, I thought we would have left all of the green behind. Heading into the North meant to me that we were going to start to see desert everywhere. That wasn’t the case at all. I see that this is a vital place in Nigeria that produces food for the whole country.

As we drove I noticed that people and buildings changed just as much as the landscape around me. All the women wore hijabs or some head covering. Many m0sques dotted the landscape. Periodically, I would see a sign on the road that was written in Arabic. It clearly indicated that a m0sque was nearby. The unusual part was that a man dressed in a white uniform and very animated was always standing after the sign pointing cars towards the m0ques. I figured that since we were traveling on the mu$lim holiday, Eid al-Adha, this was some kind of a service to those traveling if they wanted to stop and pray along the way. I was intrigued to find out that they actually were building m0sques in those places and are trying to get people to stop and give money to finish the construction.

gtsAs my travels continued I noticed people everywhere buying, selling, or butchering livestock to celebrate the holiday (Eid al-Adha), which is known as the sacrifice feast. The meaning behind the holiday is that it honors the willingness of Ibrahim (Abraham) to sacrifice his son, as an act of obedience to God’s command. Before Abraham sacrificed his son, God provided a ram to sacrifice instead. For this Mu$lim holiday, an animal is sacrificed and divided into three parts. One part is given to the poor and needy, another part is given to relatives, friends and neighbors, and the family eats the remaining part. I think back now and consider how God made so many parallels in Abraham’s story with the redemption of his creation by offering one final sacrifice in Jesus to take our place. I pray the thousands of people I passed that day will have a chance to hear the rest of the redemption story.

CIMG2956As we got further away from the Plateau, our SIM Nigeria Director started to point out piles of rubble or even a green field that used to be a church. Each came with its own story about how the church members would rebuild and then persecutors would tear down the building again and again. After five or more times they would eventually give up and many of the congregations either had left or they now meet in the open air.

 

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After the five-hour drive we arrived in the large northern city of Kano. Once more, I was amazed. The sheer size of the city (around 5 million people), its development, and its history dating back 1,000+ years was awesome to see. We saw horses, camels (I didn’t get the camels on film!), and masses of people making preparations for their holiday celebrations. We arrived safely at the church guesthouse in the only few “Christian” blocks of the city. It felt small, but safe.

IMG_9982The next morning we headed a little further up the road about 45 minutes to the small town of Tofa where SIM’s indigenous partner church, Evangelical Church Winning All (ECWA), has a theological seminary. I was blessed to meet many people there and everyone was gracious to have the cameras “ON” so that I could take film of this institution. These videos will highlight the need for missionaries to come and teach as well as identify ways that God is working in these places. The harvest is plenty but the workers are few.

Overall, it was an amazing trip and very eye opening for me on how much the North needs to here about Jesus. Please join me in praying for SIM’s northern initiative to reach the unreached. Please also pray for my future trips to the North to continue to to be safe and fruitful. Pray these video’s will stir peoples hearts to want to help in the North prayerfully, physically, and or financially.

For the past two weeks we have been very busy! Emma (C.A.R.E. Africa CEO) and Tofunmi (C.A.R.E. Africa Operational Manager) came to Jos. We were able to meet with several ministries, shop for school supplies and get some needed one on one time to go over our goals for the rest of the year. After one week in Jos we headed down to Egbe. We were able to do staff training, review end of term school results with all our kids and their caregivers, and take care of a lot of needed administration work. It was a wonderful time and our to do lists are full with everything we are wanting to accomplish in this amazing ministry. See pictures below for just a little glimpse of what we have been up to and stay posted for all the great things God is doing with C.A.R.E. Africa!

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SALT Microfinance Ministry

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Local Artist making products to help support our ministry. 

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School sandal shopping for 45 kids at yellow market in Jos.

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I don’t know how but we managed to pack everything inside for our trip to Egbe.

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Stop in Lakoja to meet with Kogi State Women Affairs.

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Another Lakoja stop to see Pastor Wallee and his wife Abigail. We miss them in Egbe!!

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Presenting Pastor Alabi at our HIV clinic with needed resources donated by CDC in Jos.

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Packing the donated backpacks up for all the kids.

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Summer school at the C.A.R.E. Centre.

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Daycare opening Sept 11th at the C.A.R.E. Center.

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Mom telling our mother daughter story to all the caregivers to encourage them.

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Worship at our monthly child celebration.

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Waiting for their food so patiently. HAHA!

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Secondary kids discipleship time.

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Play time during the child celebration.

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Finally time for food!

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End of school term results reviews with each child and thier caregiver.

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Home visit for Ayo and her Grandma.

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Staff appreciation dinner….Pounded Yam and Egusi!

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My Mother’s Eyes

Posted: August 29, 2017 by Patrice Miles in Miles In Missions, Nigeria, Prayer, SIM

Last Import - 405 of 581My mom accompanied us back to Nigeria to help us set up our home and learn more about our ministries. I realized while she was here that I have grown very accustomed to the poor and needy around me. Everywhere you go in Jos you are confronted with street kids, the disabled and the poor. I have grown so accustomed to them that they have become part of the African scenery for me. I have come to terms with the fact that I cannot save everyone and thankfully God hasn’t called me to Nigeria to do that. God has placed people in my life over the past 4 years to help and show his love to. Those I am blessed to serve are represented as 47 orphans along with their 30 caregivers, my 8 staff at CARE Africa, our house help and several Nigerian young people that are like daughters and sons to me. These relationships I have steadily built over the years and they go very deep, but the burden of saving the world I had to give over to God- otherwise I was going to go crazy.

15724714_753338044817434_447813392314878415_oI have been content in this until the pain in my mother’s eyes one day caused me to realize there is a cost to having given up the burden of saving the world.  I no longer feel the overwhelming emotions of sorrow, compassion, sadness or hopelessness when I see the faces of poverty. I don’t feel guilty walking out of store with my cheese and boxed cereal purchase while street kids, Jolie’s age, come with their empty bowls begging for food. My mom’s eyes were sad and hurting for these people every time she would see them. All this is not to say that I turn a blind eye.  We keep small denominations of Niara (dollars) and biscuits (food) to discreetly give to those we can, but there are always more hands then we can possibly fill. It is a gaping hole with no end in sight

The Bible says in Deuteronomy 5:11 that the poor will never cease from the land. The book When Helping Hurts tell us that by giving small Niara or food to the poor we are just putting a band aid on a problem that needs mentoring and discipleship to break the cycle. I can’t build relationships with every beggar so should I just do nothing? Do I just continue putting Band-Aids on a bigger problem so I feel better about myself?  I don’t know, but I am in prayer about it. Pray with me and for me. Pray that God will show both you and me His will regarding the poor and needy. The Bible calls us to do it, but the question is “how to do it in a way that satisfies God – not man” . Pray for me and I will pray for you as we both seek his direction in this.

Lost Connection

Posted: July 29, 2017 by Patrice Miles in Miles In Missions, Missionaries, Nigeria, Patrice Miles, Prayer, SIM
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Moving Day

We are back in Nigeria and in Jos. As we unpack all our boxes and luggage and move into our new home my mind is still in the U.S. I continue to think about my family, friends and supporters that we spent time with. So many people living life and experiencing joys and hurts. I loved getting to hear it all and understand how to pray for each person. This joy also brings heartache as now I am so far away from everyone that I got to share life with for 3 months. I want to stay connected….I want to know and hear about everything going on….I want to know the joys and the hurts of the ones I love back in the U.S.

How do I do that 5 hours ahead of most and 8 hours ahead of others. With unreliable internet and cell service, how can I stay connected? Facebook is wonderful when used as a way to stay connected but it also only shows me what people want to show. It isn’t going to let mesee your hearts. I also know that as life in Nigeria unfolds and work starts with the lost and needy, I will grow deeper into my relationships here and the relationships in the U.S. will start to take a backseat. I know this from experience from my last home assignment and I don’t want that to happen again. I don’t want to be disconnected from all those I love, but I also know that in some ways I have to be in order to have time for those God has called me to serve.

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I haven’t figured out this balance yet. Just know that if you are reading this….I would love to hear from you. 1st world problems are different than 3rd world problems, but problems are problems. We all feel and our emotions are real to us no matter if we live in Africa or in America. Please stay connected with me. Email me or Facebook me if you are needing prayer or if you want to share a joy. It helps me feel connected to you and also lets me know how I can be praising the Lord with you or praying for you.

 

What Will You Miss?

Posted: July 24, 2017 by Patrice Miles in Miles In Missions, Missionaries, Patrice Miles, Prayer, SIM

When we were in Nigeria thinking about spending 3 months in the U.S. it seemed like that was such a long time to stay. It has gone by soooo fast and feels like we just got here. As you read this blog post we will have already started the first of three flights in our 24-hour travel over the ocean. Before we left we were asked over and over again “What will we miss the most from the U.S.A.” Here are the answers in order of importance.

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  1. Internet (yes this was more important than family, I did ask.)
  2. Family and friends
  3. Food (Sushi)

Jolie

  1. Family and friends (sleepovers with cousins in particular.)
  2. Food (Cheese Dip and Chips)
  3. Netflix

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  1. Family
  2. Food (Mexican)
  3. Ease of everything. You can get so much accomplished so easily.

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  1. Family and Friends
  2. Sleeping in the Air Conditioning under a blanket.
  3. Food (Bakery items)
  4. Unlimited resources at your fingertips.
  5. The giving spirit of our community and how easy it is to ask and receive.

Saying goodbye is always bittersweet. We were able to visit with so many friends and family members but there was also so many we did not get to see. We are so sorry if we didn’t get time with you but you know who you are and you know our hearts are with you. Thank you for everyone that donated resources, time, money and for everyone that is praying and continues to pray for our family. We love you all….see you in 2 Years!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

This is sometimes the question I get when calling and talking to family or friends. This question could have two meanings and I’m not always sure which way they are asking me. One way could mean, “So, where are you physically located at the moment?” This is an understandable question after all of the traveling our family has done over the last five weeks. And then the question could also be asked, “So, where are you with you fundraising and ability to go back to Nigeria?”

Let me answer both questions by the numbers…

71 – days since landing in the USA.

4 – days in Bluffton, South Carolina where we met with Live Oak Christian Church as well a great family that has ties to Egbe and our work there.

8 – days in California where we spent the week as camp counselors and meeting with a Shepherd Church where Patrice’s brother is the youth pastor at.

20 – days in Charlotte, NC where we did a debrief with SIM, met with a Central Church, and spent time with more of Patrice’s family

5 – days camping in the mountains of North Carolina

1 – bad hang nail cut out (Cason)

1 – Gallbladder removed (Patrice)

Just 13 days until we leave to go back to Nigeria! Yes, we’ve been cleared to go back as long as we have commitments for the following…

4 – Recurring donation partners at $25 per month

4 – Recurring donation partners at $50 per month

2 – Recurring donation partners at $100 per month

1 – Refrigerator $700

1 – Stove $400

1 – Dining room table $500

1 – Clothes dryer $350

1 – Solar power system. Needed due to the poor power grid, which is off more often than on. $2,500

1 – Bundle of media equipment for Lenny’s new ministry. Including camera, lenses, software, etc. $3,500

If you have been waiting to sign up for monthly support, there is no better time than now! We must prove to SIM that we are fully funded before going back. Click Donate Now and chose to support our family monthly. Sign up once and the funds are automatically withdrawn every month.

If you would like to donate towards the other items listed, you can do that when you click Donate Now. No amount given towards these items is too small. It all adds up!

We are so thankful for all of you that have continued to support us along the way, as well as the new financial and prayer partners who have joined us in the last 3 months. Your generosity has more than encouraged us to keep going! Thank you!