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Comfort

Posted: March 30, 2017 by Patrice Miles in Egbe Nigeria, Miles In Missions, Nigeria, Patrice Miles, SIM

comfortblogsmallComfort, what is that? The dictionary says, “a state of physical ease and freedom from pain or constraint”. I think comfort is different for every person. For some it might be a comfortable bed at night, for others it might be a favorite food or maybe a pair of comfy house shoes on a cold morning. It is so easy to find comfort in things. But what happens when they are taken away or you loose them? I crave them! I wish I had never had a Temperpedic bed. I wish I had never tasted hot Krispie Kreme doughnuts. I wish I had never owned a pair of plush soft house shoes. If I had never experienced these things then I would never have known the comfort they brought me and then I wouldn’t crave them.

My life in Nigeria is so hard some days because of the comforts I experienced years ago in America. I ask myself, “Does God want us to be comfortable?” If everyday I have everything that makes me comfortable, then what would I need Jesus for? Do you think there are people out there that live a life with every worldly comfort their heart desires? Do you think they are satisfied or do you think they still crave something more and better? I am under the conclusion that no matter how much comfort we have we are never satisfied. Why? Because we were not made for this world so no worldly thing is ever going to satisfy us.

doughnutTemporarily we are satisfied but eventually the Temperpedic bed isn’t good enough and I need the latest version. The Krispie Kreme doughnuts are getting smaller and they weren’t hot last time. Oh and those plush house shoes are so worn out now and I can’t seem to find a pair like them again. So have you come to the realization that you are never going to be satisfied with any worldly thing? If so, how has this affected your life? What are you doing to find satisfaction in this temporary home called Earth? I would love to hear from you!

Tiv Camp

Posted: March 21, 2017 by Patrice Miles in AIDS, C.A.R.E. Africa, Egbe Hosptial, HIV, Miles In Missions, Nigeria, Prayer, Spring Of Life

DSC_0293The Tiv people are the 4th largest ethnic group in Nigeria. We have a small Tiv camp about one hour away from Egbe that suffers from severe poverty. Their camp is across from a stream that can only be crossed during dry season. Otherwise you have to use a small rope bridge. The small stream is their only source of water and most live in huts. They have a four room elementary school and they have hired four teachers to teach 150 children.

 

DSC_0431We recently did a HIV/AIDS outreach with Pastor Alabi at Spring of Life. We were able to screen over 120 people and only two were positive. We also de-wormed 150 children while giving them each an exercise book and pencil. Nurses that were visiting from the U.S. were able to take B.P. and other vitals of 45 people while our pastors counseled each person. We saw about five with very high blood pressure, one pregnant women who hadn’t felt her baby move in many days, a women with severe burns, and an older women who seemed to have severe heart problems. All were referred to the hospital for further diagnoses.

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We were really worried about the older women with likely heart failure and offered to take her back to the hospital with us but she refused. We truly didn’t believe any of them would come as the hospital is over one hour away and they are very poor. We did our best through an interpretor to tell them the possible severity of their cases and that they really needed to come and see a doctor. We all prayed that they would come. To our surprise as of today 6 have come. An HIV positive patient came for treatment. The older women with heart issues stayed overnight, was put on treatment, and will come back for check up in a month. The pregnant mother came and praise the Lord all is well with her baby. One came for her eyes and saw our eye doctor at the clinic. The last two came because their BP was so high. They were seen and put on treatment. We are excited about this new relationship we have established with this camp and look forward to see what God is going to do.

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Second Chances

Posted: March 9, 2017 by Patrice Miles in C.A.R.E. Africa, Egbe, Egbe Nigeria, Orphans, Patrice Miles, People of Egbe, Prayer, SIM

At C.A.R.E. Africa we do many interviews every week for children wanting to join our ministry. We try our best to get to the truth of the child’s current situation by asking lots of questions. Caretakers and the children will say whatever to get into C.A.R.E. so we have to play detective. We talk to references and pastors to see if their story is true. Once a child makes it through the first interview we then visit the home to see the environment and if the child truly meets our vision statement of being voiceless and exhausted.

last-import-1-of-1Recently an 8 year old boy name Damilola came with his mother for an interview.  His mother looked tired and exhausted as well as very thin. Damilola was dirty and his clothes were torn and ragged.  She was annoyed with our questions but more out of exhaustion then frustration. Damilola couldn’t understand my English or any of our staff’s English. He couldn’t read or write. When we visited the house, the structure looked like it was days away from caving in. A few old doorframes were literally holding the roof in place. They truly were voiceless and exhausted.

We didn’t have a sponsor lined up so we put Damilola on the waiting list. All of our staff that visited his home that day were in shock of the conditions and started praying for a sponsor. Two days later we received an email from the mother of two little girls in the U.S. who had saved and raised money to sponsor a C.A.R.E. Africa child. They had visited Egbe as a family and spent a lot of time with C.A.R.E. Africa. When they went home, they decided they wanted to sponsor a child.

demilolaOur staff were so excited, but knew that Damilola would not be able to cope in school yet. We started looking for a teacher that would have the patience to work with him one on one so he could eventually go to school. God sent us an angel who is the daughter of one of our housing compound workers, Oyibosay. She had taught primary school for many years and had recently lost the job. She is a miracle story herself as she was recently heading to heaven with congenital arrhythmia of the heart. Through donations toward a pacemaker she was given a second chance at life. Now she is helping a little boy who is also being given a second chance.

This story is one of so many that I get to be a part of daily. I wish I could share them all. Continue to pray for C.A.R.E. Africa as we always have a list of children waiting for a second chance.

I Want Control

Posted: March 4, 2017 by Patrice Miles in Patrice Miles, Prayer, SIM

stepsTo many times I have taken two steps forward and then looked back and thought “What if everything fails? Did I hear you correctly God? Is this your will or mine?” My life continues to be a life of stepping out in the dark in faith not knowing where the next step is, how high it might be or if it even exists. It is so out of my character to step blindly trusting what God says in Jeremiah 29:11. I like to plan everything and have control. It stresses me out to rely or trust on anyone but myself because people let me down everyday.

Lately my stress has been building up in my neck and back. The ache in my neck and back are a constant reminder of the lie that I need to take control and take care of everything myself, because God isn’t going to take care of me. It’s my lie that I have picked up and put down many times in my life. The funny thing is every time I take the steering wheel of my life and try to drive on my own, I get lost, I get a flat tire and eventually run out of gas and am exhausted.

steering-wheelI have recognized this about myself and release the steering wheel of life back to God much quicker now a days. I then get mad at my self and ask “Why did I even try and touch the steering wheel? ” Paul says it great in Romans 7:15, that he continues to do what he doesn’t want to do b/c of his flesh.

You want to know what the awesome thing is. In the midst of being overwhelmed and exhausted I look out my window and my Lord is standing right next to the car with his hand on the door handle. All I have to do is scoot over to the passenger seat and he can take the steering wheel.

reaching“Ahhhhh….. Their you are! Sorry, I was so focused on my plan and trying to control everything again and I didn’t see you there. I forget that you promised in  Deuteronomy 31:6 that I will never be alone.” I unlock the door, scoot over and my heavenly, beautiful, graceful, merciful, forgiving, smiling Father sits down and puts both hands on the steering wheel and starts to drive.

I am so blessed to know my Lord and Savior. Even though I mess up everyday he is right next to me with his hand on the door handle of my life waiting for me to allow him in. I pray for those that are at the steering wheel of life and don’t know my Savior who can rescue them when they get a flat tire or run out of gas. I cannot imagine a life of hopelessness and a feeling of having to do this life alone. I am praying for anyone reading this that does not know my amazing Father in heaven, who beckons you into his Peace! Just scoot over!

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Shop Till You Drop

Posted: February 7, 2017 by Patrice Miles in C.A.R.E. Africa, Egbe, Egbe Nigeria, Nigeria, Orphans, SIM

See a few of the new C.A.R.E. Africa products that have just hit U.S. soil. Buy C.A.R.E. Africa products and your purchase empowers a women in Egbe and helps pay tuition fees for our children. For more C.A.R.E. products visit our Etsy store at C.A.R.E. Etsy Store or email Diana to order any of the new products below.

Mommy Daughter Matching Aprons $15 ea
Tie N Die Batik Aprons $15
Soft Gift Bags $5
Hard Gift Bags $10
Coffee Coasters $8 (bunch of 4)
Handmade Greeting Cards $5 (pack of 4)
Fulani Cow Horn Earrings $10
Handmade Leather and Goat Fur Purse $20
Handmade African Wood Pallet Wall Hanging $45


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I don’t know if you remember, but my birthday was on October 21st. I had asked for 100 AWANA shirts for my AWANA club kids. I am happy to update you that I received donations for exactly 100 AWANA shirts. Not 99 or 101 but exactly 100!!

 

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Do you remember Mosun? She was a partially blind HIV patient with Spring of Life. We had discovered that the eye drops that she had been using were finished and she didn’t have money to buy more. They had really helped her vision and it had been months since she last used them. We had asked for a $50 donation so she would have eye drops for 1 year. God answered and she has eye drops for one year now.

 

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Do you remember the story of Toyin? Toyin went from an abandoned child to restoration with his father and then restoration with his mother. They are all together now in the family house, Praise the Lord. Click Toyin to be taken to the blog on him. We have not found a sponsor for him yet so if you would like to sponsor a child it is $35 a month and you can email me at Patrice.Miles@sim.org

 

 

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We also have an update on our one time donation campaign for our transition to Jos. We started our campaign with the #GivingTuesday which raised almost $10,000 that day for our ministry in Nigeria. Later my husband created this beautiful blue pie chart. As you can see the updated chart shows that God has really been speaking to people all around the world to support our ministry in Nigeria. Click one-time to be directed to the site for a one time donation.

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The last update we have for you is on our monthly support. We had sent out a blog informing everyone of our loss of three large monthly supporters totaling $1,500 a month starting January 2017. We have been praying and praying for this need to be met. We are still in need of $1,450 a month in monthly supporters. Please pray about it and consider signing up by clicking monthly to support our ministry in Nigeria monthly.

 

 

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Lastly, just this week we’ve received word that the children have passed their entrance exams and have been fully accepted into Hillcrest international School. Cason will start 9th grade and Jolie 6th in August later this year. This school has a rich history with SIM missionaries and is one of the best international schools in all of West Africa. We know and fully expect that this will prepare them for college anywhere in the world or any next steps in life that the Lord has in store for them. Thanks so much to Katie Riddle who has been teaching them over the last couple of years to prepare them for this next step!

 

img_4810I am so excited to send these awesome pictures to you of the new C.A.R.E. Africa Educational Center. Our staff have been praying and praying for months for a building for C.A.R.E. Africa. Currently we have been housed in the hospital compound in a 10×10 office at the Spring of Life clinic. The hospital and Pastor Alabi have graciously let us use this space for our office, weekly caretaker meetings, monthly child celebrations, Saturday weekly discipleship and weekly staff meetings. We have grown so much that we were starting to dominate the space and the kids coming and going was just too much.

img_4819We are excited that God answered our prayers with this building that has 6 class rooms, 4 administrative offices, one large hall and one small hall and a playground area. We will be able to host our AWANA program here and have the space we have needed for so long to break into small groups for team time. We will also be able to split the small kids and the big kids up for the council time now.

Overall our goals with this building is to have a central location for all our events. Our kids will have a safe place to come and receive special lessons after school and be able to study. We plan to also offer WAEC/JAMB/NECO coaching for the entire community of Egbe. This is the US equivalent of SAT/ACT prep. They do not offer this in Egbe and many secondary school children are scoring too low on these exams to gain admittance into University.

img_4820Last but not least we desire to open an IJMB course for secondary school graduates that scored too low on their WAEC/JAMB/NECO. This course with the passing of the IJMB exam will allow them direct admittance to 200 levels in University. This is another opportunity for secondary school graduates that are currently not available in Egbe.

We know God has big plans for this building and talks of adult programs, classes for slow learners and even business empowerment classes are in our big vision. We will see what God does!!

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A New Year, A New Look

Posted: January 19, 2017 by Patrice Miles in Uncategorized

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egbe-international-schoolThe Egbe MK School has undergone a major transformation for year 2017!  We are no longer just providing a source of education for missionary kids, but have expanded to serve a larger group.  Our compound school now offers enrollment to the children of Nigerian Doctors and Professionals serving and living at ECWA Hospital Egbe.  With this change we also had to change our name and our space. Therefore, the Egbe MK School is now Egbe International School, and has moved from our small, two room school house to a much bigger space with 3 classrooms, a large multipurpose room, and a kitchen!

img_2305We currently have seven students: one Kindergartener, one 3rd grader, three 5th graders, and one 8th grader.  So, when the decision was made to expand the school I quickly decided I needed help in teaching the diversity of students and grade levels.  Therefore, I have hired two Nigerian professional teachers Auntie Victoria Alabi…

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